Author: Keri

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But, He Spit in my Coffee: A reads-like-fiction memoir about adopting a child with Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD)

This memoir recounts a mother’s harrowing journey as she faces the challenges of raising her adopted son, Devon, who struggles with Reactive Attachment Disorder. As his violent behaviors intensify, Keri grapples with the impossibility of keeping her family safe while navigating a flawed mental health system. The story reveals systemic failures affecting families like hers.

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What is Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD)?

The article discusses Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD), characterized by children’s uncontrollable need for control due to early trauma. It explains the effects of adverse childhood experiences on brain development and attachment. The author emphasizes the importance of therapeutic parenting strategies that focus on building relationships rather than traditional discipline to alleviate the ongoing tug-of-war between parent and child.

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Behavior & Mental HealthPopularTrauma & Attachment

Signs and symptoms of Reactive Attachment Disorder 

A study on children diagnosed with Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) reveals common symptoms, including “crazy lying,” aggression, and survival behaviors. Among 236 analyzed participants, 98% exhibited relational symptoms, while 94% displayed aggression, particularly towards mothers. Common behaviors also include stealing and food hoarding, emphasizing the need for effective treatment for affected families.

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Behavior & Mental HealthPopularSupport & Self-Care for Families

Parents in crisis can’t parent therapeutically – so stop expecting us to.

The author shares an experience with their son, who faced behavioral issues while living in a group home due to past trauma and crises within the family. They reflect on their growth as a therapeutic parent, emphasizing the need for better pre- and post-adoption support and understanding from therapists to promote healing and effective parenting.

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Books, Podcasts, VideosPopularSupport & Self-Care for Families

Support groups for parents of children with Reactive Attachment Disorder

Parenting a child with early childhood trauma can be isolating and frustrating. Traditional support groups may not address unique challenges, leaving parents feeling lonely and misunderstood. Specialized treatment is essential for developmental trauma. Online support groups, such as Underground World of RAD and Attach Families Support Group, offer understanding and connection among caregivers facing similar struggles.

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Behavior & Mental Health

When suicidal ideations may not be serious

The post discusses a parent’s experience managing their son’s self-harm threats linked to reactive attachment disorder (RAD). Initially perceived as attention-seeking, these behaviors require serious attention due to underlying trauma. Parents are advised to create safety plans and recognize the need for empathy, therapy, and vigilant monitoring to prevent harm.

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Childhood Trauma/RAD in the news

Childhood adversity and trauma, including disorders like Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD), have gained attention due to issues such as family separation at the border. Reports link untreated mental health issues in youth, particularly those from foster care, to violence. There’s increased awareness of adverse childhood experiences and demands for improved mental health treatment.

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